erotic aliveness and the art of sustainable opening
how to keep what you desire
Iām now offering Erotic Transit Sessionsā1:1 readings where you stop surviving your transits and start eroticizing them. If youāre in a moment of intensity, change, or heat, weāll move through it by discovering which of your exiled desires are ripening into conscious awareness. As always, you can book an erotic natal chart reading or any of my current offerings, including my 6-month mentorship.
Sustainable eroticism depends on your tolerance for embodied vitality and openness, despite your psycheās default insistence on avoiding something very good because itās as destabilizing to homeostasis as something equally bad. This reflex is morally neutralāyouāre built to register any disruption to your baseline as negative. To live an erotic life is to open in the very places of unconscious contraction. This includes pausingāin real timeāto allow a reorientation and reintegration of your self-concept, deep integration periods that look like the erotic has returned to the underworld without you, and a sacred attitude toward non-normative emotional data like a wish fulfilled, bliss, vulnerability, euphoria, emotional intimacy, creative fulfilment, and aliveness. Itās having a creative relationship with the erotic without abandoning self-preservation.